Naive??

I’ve been watching a japanese drama called Binbo Danshi. It’s about a guy named Koyama Kazumi whom got into a large debt because of his kindness. He is a naive person whom always wants to help his friends. Watching this drama makes me wondering, is there a person like him in this world? He is too naive, really really surprisingly naive, till i think he is a hypocrite, even if in this drama he is purely kind. It’s a little bit annoying.

I believe that there are a lot of kind people in this world. Type of person whom always wants to make another happy. Always smiling no matter  what happen, and don’t want to be hated be the other. But, can you always doing that? I said ALWAYS? Till you can take another  10 million yen debt just to see another’s smile? well, i should said, i doubt it..

People might be kind, but there always time in this life when you want to be selfish. It’s the life of your own life, isn’t it? Don’t missunderstood. Honestly, i’m a type that wants to always smile and makes another happy. But i know till when i could do that. I have “my selfish time” too. My friends said” you can’t always makes everyone happy, even if you want”. And  I ever read an aphorism that said” i don’t know the key of success,but  trying to make EVERYONE happy is the key of failure”.

You may always try to makes another happy, but you can’t always doing that. Don’t forget that peoples who love you, will be happy if you happy, and being sad or guilty if you try to make another happy by sacrifice your own self. I’m not told you to be selfish. That’s not good!!. But don’t  be over  naive, or else you will being the one whom hurt. And if you hurt, there will be always another whom feels hurt too..